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Update on My Dating Situation…

October 2, 2008

Well, what can I say.  I am in a relationship again at this point in my life.

At the beginning of September I had gone to Port Angeles to meet Lee.  We had been talking online and finally decided it was time to meet in person.  We did and we had a wonderful time.  In the first week after we met, there was some trying moments and some wonderful moments.  It is hard when you live in a distance relationship especially when the relationship is cross-borders.  I had doubts about things, about how this would work, if it worked out who would move where.  The work situation would be an issue for both of us.

We talked every day, texted alot, emailed each other and just tried to be there for each other.  When he found out that he had to go to help his parents out for a few months regarding medicals issues that they have, all of this became a reality for me.  I got a bit scared of everything.  And this was just the first week after we actually had met.  We continued to keep in contact and I voiced my concerns about us and Lee just continued to try and put my fears to rest.

In talking tonight, we had discussed where we see our relationship heading.  We decided that being in a relationship with each other was the right thing for us at this time.  Many things will still need to be discussed when Lee returns from his parents but we continue to talk every night, being there for each other and supporting each other.  A relationship :) And we are both very happy with this decision.

We have not discussed the distance situation at this time.  But when Lee returns, we will figure this out.

I will give more of an update on how things are going when Lee returns and we decide on what more we are doing and the plans we are making.

Cheers and Goodnight to all <3

4 comments

  1. Good luck w/ the distance thing…I know how you feel :P But it works out if it’s right :)


  2. Thank you Dayna. I am hoping so but we have a lot of obstacles ahead of us. Look who I am telling this to. HUGZ Dayna


  3. Once upon a time I had a long distance relationship and it didn’t work out but I am sure hoping it does for you!


  4. Only time will tell Raul. I will be writing a follow-up post to this.
    Thank you for reading and for your comment :) HUGZ



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